Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Hello to anyone still out there....
Um wow!! I just remembered I had this and have made it a goal of mine to keep this guy updated better. I am more comfortable with this guy then facebook anyways. So we got a flyer in the mail today about a baby beauty pagent. Shaun says HECK NO!! LOL!! I think it would be cute though, just to do while she still doesn't know whats going on and there is no pressure... maybe I am crazy though. I think it could be dangerous though, some of those moms get a little crazy! I wouldn't want them mouthing off to me! Haha!! Anyways well I am going to try and keep up on this thing. Hope I still can remember how to do this thing! :)
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Hey I was wondering if you were back to bloggin... I can't wait for the pictures.. :) wink!
I read your response about Michael and mental illness. You have no idea. I have four adopted children all with special needs and one of the "D" syndromes and my oldest is the worst so far. She is now 20, when we got her at 13 she was the most loving sweetest little princess you could ask for. And knew how to get what she wanted and had played the system for years. When she first came she of course had a home worker, a Dr. that she went to see weekly who told us she had spent as much time with her as she could and she was doing fine. She was on every medication you could imagine when she came, and decided to stop medicating herself. So the Dr.'s agreed and she was "naked" of meds. They re evaluated her. and put her on only a few pills to help her focus and stay calm as she was ADHD and Bi-polar. She started drinking on the school bus at 14 and started selling her old meds at school at 14. Started having sex with her adopted brother (9) at 14 and thought nothing of it.
part2 )When reprimanded for anything we had done something to make it our fault. Even her wearing flip flops in the snow was an issue we had to fight about. She started punching holes in the garage walls and started threatening to kill us then kicking holes in the walls in the kitchen throwing plates of food, kicking my husband in the groin, banging her head on the doors and walls screaming at the top of her lungs, cussing us out at the top of her lungs all the way to the bus stop, standing in the yard screaming at us in foul language threatening to kill us, and then she started throwing furniture at my younger son. So we had no choice but to have her removed for the safety of the other child. Then she got physical with me. My husband had her on the floor with his knee in her back waiting for the police. She told us she wasnt going anywhere and we would see. She would make us do what she wanted and she would show us, we would pay for what we did. Meanwhile the police were calling the Child Services. They finally took her, put her in an institution, which did not help her, then when she shattered the bullet proof glass enclosure for the staff and ended up getting tased three times and being put in another emergency shelter they refused to put her in a Psychiatric clinic and put her in a foster home with a disabled child in a wheel chair. They refused to listen to us and acted like we were nobody. We had no say, no input and were treated like they had taken her because we could not take care of our children instead of us asking them to remove her due to her extreme violence and outburst. Child welfare does not do their job any better. She kicked a windshield out of a mini van at the ripe age of 4. She was so mad all the time and was diagnosed with Explosive disorder, ADHD, Bi-Polar, and a host of personality disorders. She is on her own now at 20 years old and refuses to get a job, tries to bully us into doing things for her as my husband and I are older parents, he is 61 I am 53, and when we refuse she still tries to tell us You will regret it you will see! She turns from sweet loving child to the literal bitch from hell in 2.8 seconds. And it is not like she was ever any different with meds any of the meds they gave her. She has always been this way with or without medication and it seems this is by choice, but it is a mental illness. She leaves her home a pig sty, dirty dishes, clothing, old plates of food, she is just a pig and refuses to try to get work to help herself and cant figure out why we wont let her and her not working boyfriend come here. I dont want them in my house. They had a dog that went to the bathroom all over the apartment while they stayed with someone else for three weeks and fed it peanut butter and they never cleaned after it or took it outside, it just ruined the hardwood floors, she gave away all the furniture I gave her and throws her trash down the basement steps instead of taking it out front. I get calls in the middle of the night for money and threats if I dont get it to her right away. It is horrible. And I have three more coming up right behind her 16, 13,11 that have just as serious of issues as she does. It is hard, but they all deserve a chance, but the system they came from needs to provide the service they are supposed to as well and they just flat fell down on the job.
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